It's all such a big deal. Someone you know is having a baby and you've been invited to the baby shower, but what to get? Immediately the questions begin swirling in your head: How much should I spend? What time is this thing? How close am I to this person REALLY? Should I just get a gift card? Where else are they registered? How much do have to dress up for this thing? Do they know the sex of the baby? Does it matter? Did they want to know or not? What time is this thing